Community Guidelines

This is a space for LGBTQ+ adults to find each other. The rules below keep it worth being in. Breaking them can mean removed content, a warning, or a ban.

Adults only

You must be 18 or older. Any content involving a minor is prohibited, reported, and preserved as the law requires.

No racism, no exclusion by identity

Say who you are, not who you reject. Profile text that excludes or demeans people by race or ethnicity is not allowed. That includes the obvious versions, slurs and lines like "no Blacks" or "whites only", and the coded ones, like "no rice", "no spice", or the emoji equivalents. Profiles that break this rule cannot be saved, and reported ones are removed. Describing yourself, including your own race or ethnicity, is always fine.

Who you see is your call, not an algorithm's

The grid shows everyone nearby, sorted by distance. Nothing else. There is no ranking algorithm deciding who gets seen, no prioritization, and no filtering by race or HIV status, by you or by us. The filters you set yourself are the only thing that narrows who you see.

Consent, always

No harassment, stalking, threats, or blackmail. Never share someone else's photos, messages, or personal information without their consent. Sharing or threatening to share intimate images of someone without consent is prohibited and reportable at any time.

Be real

No impersonation, no fake profiles, no misrepresenting your age. No commercial use, advertising, solicitation, or spam.

Reporting and enforcement

Every profile has Report and Block. Blocks are permanent and work both ways. Reports are reviewed by a person, and account-level decisions like suspensions and bans are made by a person, never by automation alone. If you think we got a decision wrong, reply to the notification email or contact support@ondurr.com and a human will take another look.